The four temperaments are the Melancholic, Sanguine, Choleric and phlegmatic.
Choleric characteristic : A choleric person is someone with strong vision, goals.
These people get discouraged when things are not working out but they usually brace up and never give up.
They are also arrogant in nature.
They have strong ability to beat deadlines because they have strong determination to complete any given task.
Now let's talk about a choleric woman.
A choleric woman is ambitious , she has confidence in herself and is very reliable especially in her work space.
She has a vision to succeed and she will do almost everything to succeed, including changing her associates, depending on who is leading her on the right path.
She is usually attracted to men with the phlegmatic temperament because of his contrast to her hot and hard going nature.
Why are choleric women attracted to phlegmatic men?
Because of her unwavering nature as a choleric woman, she settles for a man with a calm personality, slow to anger and comfortable nature that will always drive her from her rigid drive to a more comfortable place and a phlegmatic man matches this exact energy.
Weaknesses of a Choleric woman.
A choleric woman is usually manipulative on the verge to attract her goals.
She is skilled at measuring people for what they have to offer her.
A choleric woman is quick to anger because she doesn't have the patience of the phlegmatic temperament.
The same energy she puts in hardwork to succeed is the same energy she puts in how she tolerate any form of disrespect.
She is a woman that loves to be held in high esteem and she is usually attracted to people that hold her in high esteem.
She is controlling because of her ability to strive as a leader.
Most of the time, she sounds domineering unintentionally.
Note: It is usually good to tell her about it once you notice it because most of the time, she might not know that she sounds like that.
Most of the times a choleric woman is in love, she is usually unintentionally obsessive about the person.
The same energy she puts in getting her goals right is the same energy she puts in trying to get a man she is attracted to.
On the other hand, she also has the ability to hide her feelings from the man she loves once she feels slightly disrespected by him.
Good Side Of A Choleric Woman:
She is quick to take responsibility for people. Her loved ones, subordinates, people who look up to her.
She cries in a closet when things don't go well but never give up.
She is a strong leader with ability to multitask.
She is intelligent and will never relent in trying to learn from others, just to be a better person.
Now Let's Talk About The Choleric Man.
A choleric man is focused. He puts his goals first before socials.
He usually strive for leadership and is more relaxed in a space where his voice can be heard.
He is hard in nature and will easily encourage others to reach their goals.
He will follow you up to any lent, just to ensure that you are also meeting up with your goals.
Weaknesses Of A Choleric Man
A choleric man is usually attracted to a phlegmatic woman because of her calm and homely personality.
They love women who are easily controlled.
They are quick to anger and only a woman they love can tame it.
Choleric men are the weakest men among all temperaments once they fall in love.
They will go extra miles to get a woman they love because they will exude the same energy they put in getting their goals on trying to get the woman they love.
A choleric man loves feminine women, women that are attractive. They also love principled women.
A choleric man can stop being friends with people that are making them slack in life.
Strength Of A Choleric Man
They are very reliable and are not easily swayed by emotions when achieving their goals.
They love official environments.
They can be easily be detached from their loved ones when pressed by situations .
They give more of factual advice than emotional advice.
Only people they love can sway them by emotions. They are too factual to relate with strangers on the terms of emotions.
Phlegmatic Temperament: Phlegmatics are known for being calm, cool and collected.
They have an accommodating personality, slow in terms of movement and choices but dedicated.
They are people that will work for someone for many years irrespective of the harsh work environment.
They are homely people and are easy to love especially in official environments because they bring home to tense environments.
Phlegmatic Woman: A Phlegmatic woman has a warm personality especially on first meeting.
They are an open book irrespective of the environment they find themselves.
If a phlegmatic is happy, sad, tired, it will easily reflect on their expressions and reactions when you talk to her.
They love people but love their space more.
Phlegmatic wives can live in the mud with her husband without complaining. (Exaggeration).
She has the ability to strive in any environment she finds herself.
She is slow to anger but she has principles she would never let go for the sake of her loved ones or people that matter to her.
She is usually attracted to a choleric man because of his ability to control her and be reliable.
Phlegmatic women are reliable in terms of emotions but they love people that have the ability to keep them in a comfortable environment without wavering and that is the choleric man.
Weaknesses Of A Phlegmatic Woman
She has goals but her goals can be easily influenced by another person's decision.
She can get discouraged about her abilities.
She gives too much love and get hurt easily when it is not reciprocated.
If they are not pushed, they can be slow in terms of achieving their goals.
A comfortable environment and loved ones comes before her goals and ambition.
She is very calculative about the way she spends money.
Strength Of A Phlegmatic Woman
She doesn't easily give up on people. Once she eventually lets go, she was obviously pushed to the edge.
She is the first friend you will think of when you are in a position that money can not solve.
She easily listens to people when they voice out their frustrations.
She can be dedicated to a position and will also easily adjust to routine.
She is usually the first person to apologize in any given argument because she strives for peace at all time.
She looks weak but will remain in a tough position for a long while except she is sacked because of her routine composure.
She is a patient wife. She thinks before making decisions.
Let's Talk About The Phlegmatic Man
A phlegmatic man has all the characteristics of a phlegmatic woman but slight differences between their strengths and weaknesses are still needed to be examined.
Weaknesses Of A Phlegmatic Man.
Most of the time, because of their strong love for peace, they easily tolerate disrespect from people.
They will disappear without telling you if all you give them is far from peace.
If they are benefiting anything from you, they can bend certain principles to suit you.
They won't easily speak out their minds if you offend them once they notice that you are a violent person.
They love environments where they are given the least attention.
They are easily swayed by emotions.
Strength Of A Phlegmatic Man.
You can trust them with your secret for life.
They have the ability to settle quarrel without taking sides.
They are very reliable in working in an organization for a long time.
Sanguine Temperament
Sanguine people announce their presence before being announced.
Once they are in a place they don't know, strangers are quick to be their friends.
They love bubbly environments.
They would do anything to not be in a quiet environment for a long time.
Sanguine Woman: These people are loving and very easy to be spot in a gathering .
They love colourful outfit that will reflect their presence.
They are loud people in nature and will do anything to draw attention to themselves.
They easily fall in love and will always be trapped in a world of fantasy.
They love romantic movies, books and romantic conversations.
They are the first friends you will love to talk to about your outfit.
They are perfect choosers of outfits.
She is usually attracted to the Melancholic temperament because of her ability to easily bring joy to depression which is a constant mood of the Melancholics.
Weaknesses Of A Sanguine Woman :
They are shallow minded people.
They usually relate more about situations on the surface rather than indepth analysis.
You can rely on them for emotions but you can't go detailed about your emotions with them as you would easily do with the phlegmatic.
They are sensitive in nature and feel hurt once their emotions are not well received.
They are very fearful about situations and would do anything to save themselves before providing necessary precautions.
They are insensitive in the way they talk. They can say anything that suits the way they feel about you at the moment.
They easily make friends but lack the ability to keep them for long. They are not consistent in intentionality.
They are easily distracted from their goals.
They are quick to tears as well as quick to being joyful.
They spend money carelessly and usually lack savings.
Strength Of A Sanguine
They are the first friends you should call when you feel lonely and depressed.
They will easily bring you out of your mood.
They have the ability to easily make people laugh.
They are best at bringing people together.
They are very good at spicing up parties, hosting and the likes.
They will do anything for a man they love.
They easily confess their feelings to a man they love.
They are easily touched by little gestures because they are highly emotional in nature.
Let's Talk About The Sanguine Man
Sanguine men are usually the life of the party as they have a lot of ideas in their head to bring spice to your mood.
Weaknesses Of A Sanguine Man.
They are most times not accountable for their actions.
They face distractions in terms of responsibility for people.
They don't usually have plan B as they are risk takers.
They talk too much.
Your secret is not safe with them.
Flirting is a skill for him.
Once he falls in love, he easily gets distracted from his goals.
They hardly have savings because most of the time they spend for the moment.
They most times spend more than they earn to look good.
Strength Of A Sanguine Man
He can speak to anyone irrespective of how intimidating they look.
He easily falls in love and fall out of love.
He easily confesses his feelings even if he is not completely sure about how he feels, but the over excitement about his current mood can make him make rash decisions about his love life.
He brings joy to people irrespective of what they give him.
His anger comes as fast as it goes.
He can easily solve a situation because of his outspoken nature.
Melancholic Temperament
Everyone is quick to hate the Melancholic Temperament because they believe it is only filled with toxicity but my dating experience with my Melancholic ex made me understand why their weaknesses are the most talked about more than their strength and here's why:
First of all, according to my research, some Melancholics believe they are sanguines because of their fast ability to easily change their mood into a bubbly one.
The strong difference between a Melancholic and sanguine is that, when a Melancholic brings up his or her bubbly personality, it is intentional to make people see them as bubbly instead of just doing it out of their own nature. And if they are not completely seen the way they have portrayed themselves, they wallow into self condemnation.
Growing up as a Choleric woman, I used to always have issues with people with the Melancholic Temperament because I didn't have the patience of getting to know them and loving them for who they truly are before jumping into conclusions about them.
This is the most complicated temperament among the four temperaments to understand but once you do, I guess you have their loyalty for life.
Self Condemnation: This is the first characteristic of a Melancholic and a lot of them try to hide this strong fact about them.
They easily see themselves as not good enough no matter how they strive to be. Even if you tell them, they hardly believe.
Self Centered : They will only give you room to walk into their world after you have proved yourself to love them for who they are.
Self Sacrificing: These are the first friends that will put their lives down for you just to prove their loyalty.
Mouth Floggers : They have the ability to say the exact thing that will hurt you because they have mastered the art of how a man's mind works, situation.
Condemnation: They are quick to believe they have known you by just one act of disrespect towards them.
They will condemn you until you have tried to prove yourself to them which is almost impossible because they are perfectionists in nature.
Loyal Friend: They are choosers. If a Melancholic beats his or her mind to love you, irrespective of what you do to them, they will lean on you and call you their friend.
Reliable: They are the best people to understand your emotions and tell you the exact words you will love to hear if you meet them in their best mood.
False Personality: They are best at creating a being they want to represent.
They are the people you will see in a bubbly mood all through Monday and see in a angry and restricted mood on Tuesday.
On Wednesday, they might be in the mood to voice out their emotions and condemn you for your inability to stick with them through the phase.
Lack Of Motivation: They need someone who will consistently tell them that they are the best at what they do to feel worthy of themselves.
Self Choke: No matter the mood you are in, their emotions should come first.
Even if you are going through something, once they tell you about what is bothering them, you should always understand that they have bigger problems.
Your problem will never be bigger than theirs no matter what you go through .
Depression: This is the most common and frequent phase of a Melancholic. This particularly contributes to their unstable moods as this depression phase comes with giving all and not still receiving satisfaction. They are hardly satisfied by who they are or how people see them as they would do anything to be accepted by everyone.
People Pleasing: They are so easy to love on your first meeting with them as they would do anything to make people think of them in a positive way. They are the best people to love from afar as they have the right words or know the right thing to do to win your heart.
Among these four temperaments, a lot of us have two temperaments, just that the first is more dominant in percentage, but no matter how you see yourself in more than one temperaments mentioned, one of the four temperaments has the highest percentage.
Find out who you are after clicking on this link so that you can know which of the four temperaments is your major temperament.
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Conclusion: Do you know that there is something called the spirit controlled temperament?
A lot of people have all these flaws but because of the holy Spirit, you will only see the good side of their temperament.
SOURCE: Onyekachi's Insider Story.
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