Then you need this.
1. First of all you have to understand that if a person is not looking your way you definitely have to find a way to his face without throwing yourself on his face.
You have to be in an environment where he definitely must see you. If this is not possible, try entering his dm on social media.
You must create a forum for your presence to be acknowledged.
2. Talk frequently about his interests physically or on your social media page.
People tend to notice people based on similar interests.
If he likes baking, talk more about baking, if he likes memes, share that on your page frequently. Just make sure you are always interesting.
3. Work on your physical appearance. Use your creams, facials, don't ever leave your hair unkempt. If your crush is someone you always see physically, always wear wonderful cologne. Don't ever be caught unfresh by someone that has not learnt to love you yet. Even if you are wearing relaxing outfits, let it be neat.
4. Work on your goals and be intentional about it. Don't suddenly become ambitious because you are trying to impress a man. You will get tired. Consciously develop a desire to be become a high value woman.
5. Don't be in every man's dm. Don't be the easily accessible girl to other men. Allow your crush understand that you are not for anybody.
6. Speak less. Don't be the girl that in two minutes of opening her mouth, everyone will know everything about her. Speak openly about your goals but be consciously coded.
7. Take yourself out and upload the pictures on your social media page. You don't compulsorily have to go with friends. Make him understand that you can enjoy yourself all by yourself. It is very attractive.
8. Read motivational books. Invest your time reading so that when you speak, every man will respect you, including your crush.
9. Don't show him any form of sexual advances. If you do, he will show interest but it won't be to stay, it will just be for the moment. Show your face card and confidence but don't appear sensual.
10. Be a prayerful woman but don't self righteous. Work on your spiritual life with the intentionality to grow but don't always slap church activities in his face because you want to prove that you are a Christain. Involve yourself in spiritual discussions as well as mental discussions. Have the ability to gist. Don't be too rigid or boring, he would feel you are pretending to be someone else.
11. Strike a friendship with him. Put yourself in the spotlight without throwing yourself in the spotlight. Meet him or chat him and strike a conversation. Don't confess your feelings. Strike interesting conversations and if he eventually catches feelings, he will open his mouth.
Men of these days are no longer shy and they know greenlight when they see it in a woman. Don't be deceived that he doesn't know how to open his mouth.
If one year, two years he still doesn't openly ask you out, walk away.
NB: Don't agree with those men that tell you 'Let's see how it goes'. They are time wasters.
A man that truly wants you will ask you out and during the relationship, he discovers if he wants to put a ring in your finger or not.
Don't agree to be in any form of situationship because of emotions.
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